Defeating My Inner "Baby Mama"

As a newly 30 year old single mom I am finally beginning to embrace life.  I  am becoming one spiritually, waking up to the the truth of what the Bible tells us and what God has destined for me on this journey called living. I have come a long way. From child to lady to woman. I have been the girlfriend, the side piece, the mistress and the wife. I have always strived to be the mother. The adult in the equation of two, that can often cause the most mature person to rebel against adulthood and revert back to early adolescence. I have tried closure. I have tried communication; I have even tried space. As women we are brainwashed at a young age that relationships once over can not be cordial or amicable with the involvement of children. No matter how accommodating a woman is, no matter how cordial she tries to be; without a ring on her finger or a hand intertwined with hers, she is automatically classified a baby mama. The first step to me moving on and becoming whole in...